As a wedding consultant, I have been to many weddings and I think its time to get rid of some wedding traditions. When it comes to weddings, who says you have to follow all the rules? I believe that less is more, so it’s time to reevaluate the old-school ways of saying “I do.”
Often this traditions create a lot of stress to the wedding couple, especially the bride. The more you simplify, the more you’ll be able to focus on the really important things for your big day!
Big Bridal Parties
Since there can be lots of posturing and jockeying for these prime positions with the bride and groom, keep the bridal party small to avoid potential quibbles. Plus, with a more intimate group you’ll save money on gifts for the bridesmaids and groomsmen.
Matching Bridesmaid Style
Chances are the friends, sisters and cousins you’ve selected to be in your bridal party aren’t all of identical make-and-model. So outfitting them all in the exact same dress means there’s a good chance someone is going to look awkward (at best) and awful (at worst).
Instead, try doing different dresses in one color or a colorful array of complementary shades and have their uniqueness shine and complete you!
Assigned Seating
Guests get miserable if they’re stuck at a table away from the people they really want to hang with and don’t get to enjoy your wedding celebration! Cocktail-style settings with open seating and lots of grazing are more inviting and lively and people create wonderful memories at your wedding. Also, you’ll save money and migraines by ditching elaborate seating charts and place cards!


Ladies, I do know its your big day and its all about you. But please don’t have the “WOW” money-waster extras. Fireworks, doves, a horse-drawn carriage, a fancy limo… are things you don’t need for a wedding with big bang. While these extras create a lot of show, they aren’t necessary.
What will make your wedding unforgettable to your guests are the intimate moments, personal touches, and dancing past midnight!
The bride and groom can do something as simple and cost-free as make a special toast to their guests, which will leave the crowd with big, priceless smiles on their faces. Do you agree or disagree?